WISE BLOOD RITE- This rite can
be done alone or with a group. As with First Blood Rites and Motherrite,
gifts can be given and a feast can be held in the Crone’s
honour.
You will need-
3 veils in different colours, representing each life stage- maiden,
mother, crone. You may use whichever you wish and are attracted
to, or use white for the maiden, red for the mother and black or
deep purple for the crone. The veils should be very sheer- you will
need to be able to see through them a little.
A mirror
big enough to see your whole torso in- prop it up so that you can
sit in front of it.
Frankincense
or myrrh incense.
A dark
purple or indigo candle, the colours of mystery, and mature spirituality.
(or as many as you like for a bigger rite.)
Decorations
such as nuts, seeds, apples, bare branches (which have their own
beauty- look at Japanese flower arranging for ideas!)
Music,
again personal preference is everything, but I like drumming, the
throbbing heartbeat kind that is quite slow and steady for this
rite.
The Rite- For a group gathering, as for Motherrite and First Blood
Blessing rite, while the sacred space is being created everyone
present should hold hands, forming a circle. You may prepare in
your own way or choose to do the following:
“All are welcome here with love, to honour (name.)”
At this point, you may welcome whatever spiritual energies you wish
to be present.
Whoever is leading the rite should then light the incense, move
around the circle and say-
“Spirit of Earth, be welcome,
and bestow your protection and power on this ceremony in this
circle.
Spirit of Fire, be welcome and bestow your protection and power
on this ceremony in this circle.
Spirit of Water, be welcome and bestow your protection and power
on this ceremony in this circle.
Spirit of Air, be welcome and bestow your protection and power
on this ceremony in this circle.
Spirit of Life, love, light and dark, creation and destruction,
be welcome and bestow your protection and power on this ceremony
in this circle.”
Then return to the centre, light the
purple or indigo candle and repeat-
“It is done. This space is now sacred, dedicated to love.”
The crone, who has been veiled with the dark veil first, red veil
next and white veil over the top should then move into the centre
and sit in front of the mirror.(note- if you are doing this ritual
alone, don’t put the veils on until you sit down- make sure
you have the candles and incense safely lit and away from you and
your veils!)
Whoever is leading the ritual may say these words, or you may wish
to tape them for yourself, or just think them.
“Gaze into the mirror and breathe deeply for a while to centre
your energy. Behold the mystery of your life journey, remember your
time as maiden, when life was full of possibilities, untravelled
roads, unexplored potential. Is there anything you wish to say?
Anything you wish you had done or said? Anything you wish you hadn’t?”
(You may choose to reply to these questions or just use them as
a guide in your visualisation.)
When you are ready, either remove the veil yourself or allow one
of the others present to remove the veil for you.
“Now you are the mother, full of juice and lush with abundant
fertility. Creations pour forth from you, physical, mental and spiritual.
Gaze at the red mantle of life, the sacred colour of blood. Reflect
on your dance as mother. Is there anything you wish to say? Anything
you wish you had done? Anything you wish you hadn’t said or
done?”
Again when you are ready remove the veil, so that you are covered
by the dark one only.
“You are becoming Crone. Notice how you can see more clearly
with each transformation. You hold within you the seeds of both
maiden and mother, the wisdom of your blood. Contemplate your future.
Gaze upon yourself, take pride in your wisdom, strength and beauty.”
When you are ready either lift the veil yourself or allow someone
to lift it for you so that it hangs down either side of your face,
but you can see your face clearly. Smile.
Then say:“ I am the woman
of wholeness.
The reflection of the Living Goddess,
who resides within us all
I welcome this transformation
And ask for whatever I need to be given
So that I may become what I am truly meant to be.”
You may then like to say a few words,
perhaps ask for whatever you need, or state what you goals may be.
Or if there are other women present it can be nice for each one
to say something, make a wish for you and say something about their
own journey if they think it will help you on yours.
If you are in a group, a powerful way to conclude this rite is for
all the women present to begin a slow clap. The Crone in the centre
then slowly walks around the circle and stops at each woman, and
either hugs or bows her head with hands in prayer position at the
forehead. It’s a wonderful way to show your appreciation and
respect for the person in the centre. (This part can become an amazing
celebratory dance. If it does, go with it, have fun!)
Snuff the candle or candles and sit quiet for a few moments. Allow
your energy to return to the earth, leaving you peaceful, strong
and happy.
Extract
from “Moon Rites- ritual, myth and magic for the modern moon
goddess” by Spiraldancer- available at wisewomanbookshop.com
SPIRALDANCER lives with her husband
and two daughters in Northern New South Wales, Australia. She is
a freelance writer specialising in women’s spirituality, Wicca,
myth, ritual and alternative healing. Her work is regularly published
in “Witchcraft” Magazine, Australia.
